Should I fix this relationship, let her approach me, or just keep it ended?

Should I fix this relationship, let her approach me, or just keep it ended?
She was sweet when she was around. However, after her business closed and we didn’t see each other regularly. It was like she forgot all about me. I guess I need to give some background information. I was her waitress and she was my boss, and the owner of the business. We were extremely close and I was also close with her sister. Her sister and her always fought and this caused the business to close, but before it closed–everyone was kinda forced to take sides. I took my friends side and I quit just a few weeks before it closed. Ever since then I feel like I get treated like crap. She only has time when it’s CONVENIENT for her. I was there for her when her sister treated her badly, when all her friends walked out of her life, and even when she went through her depression. Being I was 16 til now, I’m 20. I’ve done more than any person, my age would do. I gave her friendship, caring, and understanding. I went to her the other day, when I truly needed her. She responded via text as I text her. Oh stop it! As I said ya know I truly feel like no one cares and I really need someone to talk to. She goes I’ll be online later. However, I went to sleep. She called me the next day and goes sorry I didn’t get online last night, but I wanted to see if you were ok and I love you. This voice mail followed my post on Facebook saying I see every time I need someone, I have to always still strong for myself because no one is around. And true friends are there even when it’s not as convenient for them. Other instances were I was lucky to see or hear from her once a month and sometimes two. She always said nice things but her actions made me feel like she didn’t appreciate me or our friendship. Well I took her off Facebook and out of my contacts, but I feel terrible. She sent me a text message on the 22nd and said I just wanted to say hi. This also following a message, I sent the night before saying you know I miss you, and I wish I heard from you more often. Then I text her Christmas Eve even though I deleted her from my phone and said Merry Christmas and she replied Merry Christmas to you too!!! I regret ending my friendship with her but I really don’t think I can fix it. She always tells me, that you either accept the friendship the way it is or not. And I did what I thought was best for both of us. But now, I’m hurting still. At first, it felt like a weight was lifted. Any ideas of why I’m regretting this?

She’s 58 and I’m 21. Both females. She was like an aunt to me

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What does the phrase “Integrate two potential realities, or let go of one of them” mean?
This saying was my “Tarot card of the day” included in my daily horoscope found @ Tarot.com.
I am assuming this saying means something around the lines of: Either settle with both of the hard realities you’re facing (possibly a relationship issue such as the person you are considered “talking to”, who you’ve known for a week, hasn’t been talking to you and you haven’t seen them because they’re having some bad luck lately. Such as getting arrested, getting fired, losing their job, & getting sued all in one week.) Or basically forget him and take a different path? That’s as close as I can get to sounding like my story atm, lol…

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This is kind of hard to interpret without knowing what the actual card is, but it sounds to me like it is either a Two or The Lovers. Going by the phrase you gave, I am going to guess that it is the Two of Pentacles, which means you are juggling two different realities, options, etc. and need to stop.

One way or another, this card is telling you to settle things. These two options cannot continue to co-exist the way they are – either find a way to bring them into a compromise that combines them, or simply choose one over the other.

If you are willing to tell me what card it is I would be happy to try to expand or interpret it. Since you said this came from your daily horoscope, then I am assuming it is your “card of the day” and therefore is a general daily outlook for you. Do not apply it to a particular situation, then, since it is meant to outline your entire day. Personally, I love daily outlook readings, and find that they can be incredibly helpful for advice as well (I only use the major arcana for mine). If you are looking for more insight into a particular situation, I would recommend a reading focused on that. Whether you want to do one online (like tarot.com) or get one from a live person (this can also be done via the internet) is entirely up to you. With both options, make sure the reader (or software) is reliable.

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